To be able to read any website member posts you have to "Follow" them and to click or activate the notifications. Only by such you could be updated what is going on to this Forums world.
Practically, Go to this link ( https://www.noir-palace.com/website-members ) see who other members you know, click "Follow", if wish of course. See also, how many others have done same for you! Who wish to follow your posts.
For example, I am "following" 144 users (ladies and members and friends)! While i am "followed" by 23 users (only!).
You could see a few stats for your use in Forums (posts, comments, likes etc). See my stats here:
You can see your stats along to your notification system in this link:
https://www.noir-palace.com/account/settings
See my notification board and stats:
Did it help? ...
Also, to follow someone easily , simply hover mouse over their name and pic and click follow in the box that appears. So easy even a blonde can do it! :))